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Help, what gift should I bring when I go to the man’s house for the first time?

My boyfriend and I are college classmates and have been together for more than 2 years. Since his family lives in another city, I have never met his parents. This summer, I plan to go home with him to meet his future parents-in-law. I don't know what gift I should bring when I go to his house for the first time?
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When meeting your parents-in-law, the first impression is very important. Leave a good impression on the other party's parents, let them think you are a sensible and filial girl, and then they can rest assured to hand over their son to you. Giving gifts is very important here. The right gift will add points to your first impression. So what kind of gift can please the boy's parents? Here are some tips for you.
1. Gifts should be based on the needs of the other party. Before giving gifts, you must first ask your boyfriend and have a general understanding of his parents' preferences. If his father likes to drink tea, then send a good Longjing tea gift box at the right time, hit hard, and know the other party's key points. How can he not be happy?
2. Gifts must be impartial, consider many aspects, and take care of everyone's feelings. If you only take care of your father, but ignore bringing gifts to your mother, she will certainly be dissatisfied with you in her heart! At this time, give the Red Heart K collagen powder you prepared in advance to your future mother-in-law, wishing her good health and eternal youth, she will definitely praise you for your thoughtfulness!
3. The gifts for the elderly should be practical, not beautiful but useless. The parents-in-law choose a daughter-in-law who is frugal and manages the household. If you buy a gift that is too exaggerated, it will not only waste money, but also easily leave a bad reputation for spending money recklessly and not knowing how to manage the household. It is better to choose some economical and practical small appliances, such as smart vacuum cleaners, to help the elderly share the housework, so that they feel that you understand their hard work.
1. Gifts should be based on the needs of the other party. Before giving gifts, you must first ask your boyfriend and have a general understanding of his parents' preferences. If his father likes to drink tea, then send a good Longjing tea gift box at the right time, hit hard, and know the other party's key points. How can he not be happy?
2. Gifts must be impartial, consider many aspects, and take care of everyone's feelings. If you only take care of your father, but ignore bringing gifts to your mother, she will certainly be dissatisfied with you in her heart! At this time, give the Red Heart K collagen powder you prepared in advance to your future mother-in-law, wishing her good health and eternal youth, she will definitely praise you for your thoughtfulness!
3. The gifts for the elderly should be practical, not beautiful but useless. The parents-in-law choose a daughter-in-law who is frugal and manages the household. If you buy a gift that is too exaggerated, it will not only waste money, but also easily leave a bad reputation for spending money recklessly and not knowing how to manage the household. It is better to choose some economical and practical small appliances, such as smart vacuum cleaners, to help the elderly share the housework, so that they feel that you understand their hard work.
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